3 Reasons Why We Don’t Post Pictures on Vacation


It started as something my husband asked me not to do for safety reasons and quickly grew into a firm family rule. The rule is one I follow joyfully and I plan to keep around when my kids are well into their teen years. It may sound silly. But today I would like to tell you why we don’t post pictures on vacation. We Don't Post Pictures on Vacation :: Three Reasons Why We Wait to Share Photos from Albuquerque Moms Blog

Why We Don’t Post Pictures on Vacation

For Safety

I remember when my in-laws were planning a trip to Hawaii. It was a big deal for them. But they were so cagy about it when we were sitting around their pool asking them about their upcoming trip. My husband later told me it was because they were afraid someone would overhear, become aware of their plans to be gone, and then break into their house while they were away. I rolled my eyes thinking they were just paranoid. But when it came time for us to go on vacation, I found myself doing the same thing.

What a lot of people don’t realize is that posting something–anything–on social media is like yelling loud enough for all your neighbors to hear.

Your next door neighbor might not be on Facebook. But the rest of the world is. And they are listening when you tell them you’re going out of town.

According to Time Magazine, 78% of burglars use social media to plan their next break in. I think the magazine said it best when they said: “Next time you leave your home for any appreciable length of time, whatever you do, don’t tell the Internet.”

For the safety of my home and especially my children (if my husband and I are traveling alone), I can refrain from posting for a week or so.

For the Sake of the Trip

When my husband wisely asked that we not post any pictures or mention anything on social media about us being away, I got kind of mad. After all, everyone else posts pictures of their vacation while they’re on vacation. I wanted that kind of attention too! But I respected his leadership. So I followed along. As it would turn out, I loved the feeling of being present with my family, not doing something just to post it online, and the freedom of not even having to think about posting pictures. It really felt like a vacation.

We Don't Post Pictures on Vacation :: Three Reasons Why We Wait to Share Photos from Albuquerque Moms Blog

Really, there’s nothing wrong with sharing photos of your trip. I love seeing pictures of people’s vacations! But sometimes, when they are constantly posting while on vacation, it makes me wonder how much fun they are really having with the people they are with.

You may say that those people are actually having so much fun that they need to tell the world about it. Well, I’d argue that the time they are taking to post a picture or even an #instastory is precious time where they may miss something. I’d also argue that if they are posting pictures as a reflex on vacation then they aren’t doing either the vacation or social media well.

This brings me to my final point.

Why We Don't Post Pictures on VacationFor the Sake of Social Media

So often people are posting pictures on social media as a reflex. My kid did something cool. Gotta post about it. I’m boarding an airplane. Gotta post about it. Since it’s just a reflex, there is little thought behind it and no care for the way people will react. Often the story they are trying to tell is lost.

Just because we aren’t posting pictures while we are on vacation doesn’t mean we never share pictures of our trip with our friends online. In fact, I probably share more pictures of our vacations now than I did before. I just wait until we’re home.

Sharing our trip becomes a little more of an art instead of simply updating my followers about where I am at that exact moment. I go through all my photos and edit them. Then I pick which ones I want to use in order to tell a story about our trip. It’s so much more thoughtful and less of a reflex. And I love reliving those moments once we are home and back in the grind of everyday life.

Originally published June 2018.

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Katie Danner
Katie is a native New Mexican who loves living in Albuquerque with her husband and three kids. With a background in journalism and hospitality, Katie loves to write and is passionate about the beautiful state she calls home. When she's not changing diapers, searching for lost toys or sweeping food off the floor, she enjoys reading and making fun crafts. Since becoming a momma, almost five years ago, one of Katie's favorite things has been meeting and connecting with other moms. Some of her best friendships have developed over conversations about sleep patterns and potty training.


  1. I love that last little paragraph! Something I want to do is be more intentional about a lot of things in my daily life, and I like the idea of applying that to pictures from vacation, as well as posting to social media. Thank you!

  2. Very nice article.

    Also, in the grand scheme of things….most of our lives are just about the same. The main difference is what we do with our time and money as we’re all very blessed people. I adopted a mantra that I adhere to on social media and it goes like this, “Let us not boast about our many blessings but rather boast about the One that blesses us.” And when I adhere to this mentality, I tend to not say/post anything as being grateful in a social forum can look a lot like a humblebrag if you’re not careful.

    Our parents, grand parents and great grand parents use to say, “Mind your own business”. And that includes not sharing stuff on the Internet. Because it’s up to you to keep your private life……private. 😉

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