Why Does It Feel So Good to Hate? :: NM Momcast | Episode 23

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Why do we like to villanize people who think and believe differently than us? This is something you might be wondering as we creep toward November 5th. In this thought-provoking episode of New Mexico Momcast, hosts Vanessa and Becca dive into intellectual hospitality—the art of showing compassion, understanding, and curiosity towards those with differing beliefs. In a world increasingly divided, particularly in the political realm, the duo explores why it’s often easier to embrace hostility than empathy. They reflect on the challenges of teaching kindness in such a polarized climate as individuals and as mothers raising the next generation. Listen in for a candid discussion about navigating differences with grace and cultivating a more compassionate world for our children.

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NYT: Do You Live in a Political Bubble?
Reviving Intellectual Hospitality

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Becca Lusko Toups
Becca is a stay-at-home "Mom-ager" with four kids and a wonderfully blended family. She is retired from corporate cosmetics management, but pieces together countless side hustles as a makeup artist, doing interior design and styling, creating custom fiber wall art, and coaching high school volleyball. She has been in Albuquerque most of her life but has also lived in enough other states long enough to know how amazing the weather is here in New Mexico! Becca and her husband David have two teenagers, a preteen, and a kindergartener. This keeps parenting VERY interesting and busy from driver's ed and dating to storytime and dress up. She loves finding humor in the everyday, figuring out how to DIY almost anything around the house, cooking with her husband, keeping active with a myriad of sports and fitness, as well a celebrating all holidays. Follow Becca on Instagram or check out her website.